"Has Your Nice Guy Behavior F*cked Up Your Relationship?"
I teach Nice Guys how to build and rebuild intimacy in their relationships using a proven
Are You are here because?
She's Pissed and She Doesn't Trust You!
You messed up, did something you probably shouldn't have done, and she found out. She says she
"doesn't trust you anymore" and not sure she wants to be with you. Now you don't know what to do next.
You're Stuck In A Sexless Relationship.
You try harder, make promises, become nicer, and try to make her happier. All with the hope that this time will be different. This time she'll see what a great guy you are and want to have sex with you again.
You Don't Know If Your Relationship Can Be Fixed.
It's been this way for so long that you don't know if your relationship can be fixed. On the one hand, you want to make it work, but you wonder if things might be better if you were on your own.
It's time to stop what you've always done and do something radically different.
There's A Better Way!
Become the Irresistable King She Desires.
I Coach Nice Guys Using A Three-Step Pathway to rebuilding trust, creating attraction, and living free.
1. Create Attraction and Connection:
Masculine and feminine are polar energies that create attraction and connection. However, the Nice Guy is a poor attractor. He fails to create a connection with women because he never learned to embody his masculine energy. He was conditioned to instead show up in his feminine form of the unassuming, polite, and happy-go-lucky Nice Guy. This works on some level because she likes to be entertained. However, she sees the nice guy as “cute” rather than a potential protector, provider, and sustainable mate and puts him in the dreaded friendszone. Now he wonders why she is no longer attracted to him. Establishing attraction happens as you embody the masculine energy she craves and shows up in your masculine strength's fullness.
2. Put yourself first:
I know that putting yourself first seems counterintuitive. But hear me out. Nice Guys learned at an early age that everyone else's needs are more important than their own. As a result, the Nice Guy learns to stifle his needs to the point that he no longer knows himself or knows what he likes. Nice Guys believe if they make everyone happy, they will have a problem-free, smooth life. So they have a covert contract that says, "if I meet everyone else's needs, then they will want to meet mine." However, when others fail to meet their needs, the Nice Guy becomes resentful and passive-aggressive. Until a Nice Guy learns to make his needs, wants, and happiness a priority, he will remain stuck in one-sided relationships. I can show you how to change this.
3. Align your values:
Until a Nice Guy learns to live from a place of integrity, he will always feel unbalanced and disappointed. Nice Guys need to define their core values and align their behaviors accordingly. Unfortunately, most Nice Guys have never expressed their values and go through life without a map and a compass to guide them. When Nice Guys live unapologetically from their values, they will only accept satisfying and thriving relationships. Living in integrity is the only way to build or rebuild trust. I can show you how.
Let's talk if you're interested in getting your relationship back on track without losing everything.Talk With Chuck
"Chuck is one of those men whose personal path and career passions are one and the same. Chuck is committed to his own personal growth and evolution as a man, bringing that energy and focusing on his work with men. Chuck may be just the person you've been seeking if you are looking for a mentor, teacher, or advisor who walks his talk."
– Dr. Robert Glover Author No More Mr. Nice Guy
“In despair with where my Nice guy tendencies had gotten me in life, finding Chuck was truly a miracle. He is so adept at recognizing the Nice Guy patterns, sometimes it almost feels like he can read my mind. With compassion, he tells me what I need to hear when I need to hear it, and continually challenges me to a higher level. Chuck is a master at recognizing the nice guy patterns and will help guide you towards recovery.”
"Working with Chuck absolutely opened my eyes to the destructive pattern in my life that was being a Nice Guy.
To say that my time with Chuck was liberating would be an understatement. Now I feel that I am no longer a Nice Guy, but a good man and as a result, my personal relationships and outlook on life and improved dramatically."
"You've probably had a coach to help you improve in sports and a teacher to help you in academics. What matters more than being a better man?
I go to Chuck Chapman for coaching to live better, earn more, achieve more, and love more. I'm a professional investor, and the best investment I've ever made is self-improvement."
"Chuck has a great balance of being a skilled coach and a real person who’s walked the walk. That balance along with being someone I completely trusted made Chuck an irreplaceable ally on the road to getting my life back and living the kind of life I really wanted. Chuck wasn’t afraid to be open and honest about his experiences and about helping me and really diving into it. I could feel that, which translated into me not being afraid. It enabled me to open up, to grow, and to move forward."
"When I first met Chuck, I didn't think my marriage could be saved. Years of living as a Nice Guy had eroded my relationship with being "tolerable roommates." Chuck helped me put the finger on what was going wrong in my life and then gave me the strategies to overcome my Nice Guy Syndrome. The result was as I changed, my marriage changed. Not only did it get better, but it became amazing! I highly recommend Chuck as a Coach and Teacher. "
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